Shawn “Scrappy” Joseph Tarnowski
February 13, 1987 ~ May 22, 2025
Shawn “Scrappy” J. Tarnowski, 38, Ft. Collins, CO, passed away on May 22, 2025, while visiting Williston, ND. A man of grit, contradictions, and restless energy, Shawn lived life on his own terms – fast, loud, and unapologetically.
A Service of Remembrance will be held from 11 a.m. – 1 p.m. on Wednesday, June 4, 2025, at the American Legion in Renner, SD, 47410 258th Street. Friends and family are invited to ride out and remember Shawn “Scrappy” Tarnowski – honestly, fully, and without filter.
Shawn “Scrappy” Joseph Tarnowski was born in Sioux Falls, SD on February 13, 1987, to Chuck McGrath and Connie Tarnowski. He grew up close to his brothers and friends. He spent time riding bikes, swimming, and participating in Young Marines. As Shawn grew up, he was never one to follow the straight path. In 2006, he enlisted in the U.S. Army, answering a call to service. After his time in uniform, he shifted into independent contracting work in the Middle East, taking on high-risk roles that suited his fearless nature. Later, he transitioned into oil field work, continuing a life of hard labor and hard living. Over the years, Shawn built a diverse and rugged employment history that reflected the kind of man he was – adaptable, tough, and always on the move.
Shawn had a deep love for motorcycles, long roads, and stiff drinks. He lived for the ride and for the camaraderie of those who understood the life. He was never one to shy away from a story, especially if it came with a laugh and a shot of whiskey.
Though he wasn’t always present, Shawn loved his children, Isaac, Sophia, and Zac. The years and the miles often got in the way, but they remained a part of him – in ways he didn’t always know how to express.
He leaves behind a legacy as wild and varied as the places he worked and the roads he took. Those who knew him will remember a man who lived fast, worked hard, and left no part of life untouched.
Shawn is survived by his children, Isaac Tarnowski, Sioux Falls, SD, Sophia & Zac Tarnowski, Ft. Collins, CO; his father, Charles McGrath, Ramsey, MN; his brother, Nathan (Lindsay) Tarnowski, Sioux Falls, SD; his twin brother, Michael (Bethany) Tarnowski, Fredericksburg, VA; and numerous nieces and nephews.
Shawn was preceded in death by his mother, Connie Tarnowski.
Never above you, never below you, always beside you.
Uncle Shawn will forever be missed, I didn’t get to know him long, but he has left an impression of a long lost uncle I will remember dearly. His quote never below you, never above you, always beside you will forever will be remembered. Rest in peace uncle, gone too soon, til Valhalla.